Have you ever gone to a restaurant with someone whose meal cost $10, and watched them struggle over the tip? They have $2 in change, and they know that leaving just $1 might be thought of as stingy. Yet, do they leave $2? Not on your life! That would be too much. Instead they’ll waste five minutes getting change for that second dollar so they can leave $1.50 tip and save themselves $.50, rather than to sow generously by leaving a little extra. What would have happened if they’d left the full $2? They would have made the server’s day. Fifty cents may not seem like much, but the message that goes along with it can mean the world to someone. I have a good friend who was out to eat recently. He noticed that his server was in need of dental care. He also discovered, in brief conversation, she was working out of necessity as the main provider for her needy family. Although my friend’s lunch was under $10, he left her a $20 tip. As he exited the restaurant, she ran after him and, with tears, thanked him for his generosity.
2 Corinthians 9:6 declares, “Whoever sows generously will also reap generously.” Part of reaping generously is that we get to increase the joy of others, and, in the process, we bless ourselves. This is just one tiny example of the many ways in which the small things we do have surprisingly big repercussions. Here is the thing… God only tells us to do things that will put us in a place to be blessed by Him. He wants to bless us, and He will… in proportion to our obedience. And generously sowing our money, time, attention and energy in the lives of others, for God's purpose, puts us in the position to reap generously.
Pray with me… Our Father, make us like you, bighearted and open-handed. In our best moments we desire to bless and be blessed. Make it the rhythm of our Christian lives, we pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Monday, March 4, 2013
Monday, February 25, 2013
2/25/13
The great Scottish essayist and historian Thomas Carlyle married his secretary, Jane Welsh. She continued to work for him, but when she became ill, Carlyle, who was deeply devoted to his work, didn’t seem to notice, so he allowed her to keep working. But she had cancer and eventually was confined to bed. Although Carlyle truly loved her, he found that he didn’t have much time to stay with her or much attention to give her. Then she died. After the funeral Carlyle went to Jane’s room, noticed her diary lying on the table, picked it up and began to read. On one entire page she’d written just a single line: “Yesterday he spent an hour with me and it was like heaven: I love him so much.” A reality he had somehow been too blind to see was now revealed with crushing clarity. He’d been too preoccupied with his work and simply failed to notice her. He hadn’t seen her suffering. He hadn't been sensitive to her longing love. Turning to the next page, he read words he’d never forget: “I’ve listened all day to hear his footsteps in the hall, but now it’s late and I guess he won’t come today.” He put her diary back on the table and ran out of the house. Friends found him at the side of his wife’s grave, covered with mud. His eyes were red from weeping as he repeated the phrase over and over again: “If only I’d known… If only I’d known!” After Jane’s death, Carlyle made little attempt to write again.
Ephesians 5:1-2, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us…”
Pray with me… Dear Jesus, we do not want You to have to wait for us and neither do we want to fail to communicate our love to the people in our lives who need our time, our words, our acts of kindness, our gifts or our touch. In Your dear Name we pray, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Ephesians 5:1-2, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us…”
Pray with me… Dear Jesus, we do not want You to have to wait for us and neither do we want to fail to communicate our love to the people in our lives who need our time, our words, our acts of kindness, our gifts or our touch. In Your dear Name we pray, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
2/18/13
Psychologist Philip Zimbardo describes drug addiction as ‘wanting more,’ but some guys today have what he calls arousal addiction, always ‘wanting something different.’ A never-ending stream of stimulation is behind the growing failure of males to succeed academically or to connect with women socially. Some men are dropping out of the deep and abiding joys of real life, trading them instead for excitement and fantasy.
Zimbardo cites excessive internet use, video gaming and online pornography as causes of this new addiction. By age 21, boys have spent over 10,000 hours gaming, two-thirds of that time in isolation. The average young adult male accesses pornography 50 times a week. “Boys’ brains are being digitally rewired in a totally new way, for change, novelty, excitement and constant arousal,” Zimbardo says. “They’re totally out of sync in traditional classrooms, which are analog, static and interactively passive. And they’re totally out of sync in their personal relationships, which naturally build more gradually and subtly. This is creating a generation of young men who do not connect well in teaching situations and who lack social skills, especially with women.” Can you also see the implications for church life? Worship does not have enough entertainment value or engagement in physical activity. Bible teaching requires sitting still or sitting under another, submission to the learning process, dictated by another. Meditation is too quiet and still. We think we need more movement, more involvement. Holiness is just not exciting enough. It does not satisfy the curiosity or produce the sensual excitement that the I-phone, the I-pad or the computer can supply. But, Psalm 46:10 calls us back to a life of quiet reflection and regular devotion, “Be still, and know that I am God….”
Do you, your son, visit this place daily? Often? Occasionally? At all?
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Zimbardo cites excessive internet use, video gaming and online pornography as causes of this new addiction. By age 21, boys have spent over 10,000 hours gaming, two-thirds of that time in isolation. The average young adult male accesses pornography 50 times a week. “Boys’ brains are being digitally rewired in a totally new way, for change, novelty, excitement and constant arousal,” Zimbardo says. “They’re totally out of sync in traditional classrooms, which are analog, static and interactively passive. And they’re totally out of sync in their personal relationships, which naturally build more gradually and subtly. This is creating a generation of young men who do not connect well in teaching situations and who lack social skills, especially with women.” Can you also see the implications for church life? Worship does not have enough entertainment value or engagement in physical activity. Bible teaching requires sitting still or sitting under another, submission to the learning process, dictated by another. Meditation is too quiet and still. We think we need more movement, more involvement. Holiness is just not exciting enough. It does not satisfy the curiosity or produce the sensual excitement that the I-phone, the I-pad or the computer can supply. But, Psalm 46:10 calls us back to a life of quiet reflection and regular devotion, “Be still, and know that I am God….”
Do you, your son, visit this place daily? Often? Occasionally? At all?
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Monday, February 11, 2013
2/11/13
Reader’s Digest wrote of the late Harvey Penick: “For 90-year-old golf pro Harvey Penick, success has come late. His first golf book, Harvey Penick’s Little Red Book, has sold more than a million copies, which his publisher believes makes it one of the biggest things in the history of sports books. His second book, And If You Play Golf, You’re My Friend, has already sold nearly three-quarters of a million copies.”
But anyone who imagines Penick wrote the books to make money doesn’t know the man. In the 1920’s Penick bought a red spiral notebook and began jotting down observations about golf. He never showed it to anyone except his son until 1991, when he shared it with a local writer/friend and asked if he thought it was worth publishing. The man read it and told him yes. He left word with Penick’s wife the next evening that Simon and Schuster had agreed to an advance of $90,000. When the man saw Penick later, the old man seemed troubled. Finally Penick came clean. “With all our medical bills,” he said, “there is no way we could advance Simon and Schuster that much money.” The writer had to explain to Penick that he would be the one to receive the $90,000.
People often have Penick’s reaction to the lavish gift of forgiveness and salvation offered in Jesus Christ. We ask, “What must I do?” God answers, “It’s already been done. Just believe it and receive it.”
Pray with me… Father, thank You so much for the ‘whoevers’ in Your Word. “Whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.” And, “Whoever believes in Jesus shall not perish but have everlasting life.” “Whoever will come to the Waters of Life and drink deeply.” Thank you for loving us first and sending Jesus to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins… and not for our sins only but also the sins of the whole world. We are free indeed. In the name of the Son, even Jesus, we pray. Amen
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
But anyone who imagines Penick wrote the books to make money doesn’t know the man. In the 1920’s Penick bought a red spiral notebook and began jotting down observations about golf. He never showed it to anyone except his son until 1991, when he shared it with a local writer/friend and asked if he thought it was worth publishing. The man read it and told him yes. He left word with Penick’s wife the next evening that Simon and Schuster had agreed to an advance of $90,000. When the man saw Penick later, the old man seemed troubled. Finally Penick came clean. “With all our medical bills,” he said, “there is no way we could advance Simon and Schuster that much money.” The writer had to explain to Penick that he would be the one to receive the $90,000.
People often have Penick’s reaction to the lavish gift of forgiveness and salvation offered in Jesus Christ. We ask, “What must I do?” God answers, “It’s already been done. Just believe it and receive it.”
Pray with me… Father, thank You so much for the ‘whoevers’ in Your Word. “Whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.” And, “Whoever believes in Jesus shall not perish but have everlasting life.” “Whoever will come to the Waters of Life and drink deeply.” Thank you for loving us first and sending Jesus to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins… and not for our sins only but also the sins of the whole world. We are free indeed. In the name of the Son, even Jesus, we pray. Amen
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Monday, February 4, 2013
2/4/13
My pastor friend, Mark Atteberry, from Poinciana, FL tells about his 6-year-old granddaughter visiting in their home recently. She talked about how she and her classmates have been trained in what to do “if a bad man gets into our school with a gun.” He wrote:
First, let me say I am thankful for school administrators and teachers who take the safety of our children seriously. I’m glad they’ve come up with a plan and have trained the children. I wouldn’t have it any other way. What makes me sick is that we have a need for this sort of thing; that an innocent child, who should have nothing more on her mind than learning to read and not being ‘it’ during a game of tag at recess, has to worry about getting shot at school. I’m tempted to say, “What is this world coming to?” But then, we know what this world is coming to, don’t we?
This is why I am not a humanist. Humanism says that humans are this world’s greatest hope, that eventually, given enough time and resources, we’ll figure out how to make this world work properly. Yeah, right. Never, ever has there been a bigger lie. Humans have polluted or perverted everything they have touched from day one, which is why I shudder when I think of the large number of people today who are putting their faith in the government. “Give us more laws!” they cry, as if a few more man-made laws will stem the swelling tide of depravity that is sweeping across our nation. By some counts, there are over 10,000 federal laws on the books already, and that doesn’t include state laws. Still, we have to teach our kids how to hide from killers when they go to school…
No thanks. Humanism is not for me. My faith is not in the government, academia, or the white coats in the laboratories. I’m casting my lot with the Living, Loving God. I agree with David, who said in Psalm 39:7, “And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in You.”
Pray with me… Our God and Father, we identify with the disciples on the day that the crowds seemed to thin out after Jesus had impressed on them some hard teaching. He asked his twelve if they also wanted to go away. It was Peter who responded with the words that resonate with our own hearts when he said, “To whom shall we go Lord? Only You have the words of eternal life.” And, with one voice we say the same. In Jesus strong Name, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
First, let me say I am thankful for school administrators and teachers who take the safety of our children seriously. I’m glad they’ve come up with a plan and have trained the children. I wouldn’t have it any other way. What makes me sick is that we have a need for this sort of thing; that an innocent child, who should have nothing more on her mind than learning to read and not being ‘it’ during a game of tag at recess, has to worry about getting shot at school. I’m tempted to say, “What is this world coming to?” But then, we know what this world is coming to, don’t we?
This is why I am not a humanist. Humanism says that humans are this world’s greatest hope, that eventually, given enough time and resources, we’ll figure out how to make this world work properly. Yeah, right. Never, ever has there been a bigger lie. Humans have polluted or perverted everything they have touched from day one, which is why I shudder when I think of the large number of people today who are putting their faith in the government. “Give us more laws!” they cry, as if a few more man-made laws will stem the swelling tide of depravity that is sweeping across our nation. By some counts, there are over 10,000 federal laws on the books already, and that doesn’t include state laws. Still, we have to teach our kids how to hide from killers when they go to school…
No thanks. Humanism is not for me. My faith is not in the government, academia, or the white coats in the laboratories. I’m casting my lot with the Living, Loving God. I agree with David, who said in Psalm 39:7, “And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in You.”
Pray with me… Our God and Father, we identify with the disciples on the day that the crowds seemed to thin out after Jesus had impressed on them some hard teaching. He asked his twelve if they also wanted to go away. It was Peter who responded with the words that resonate with our own hearts when he said, “To whom shall we go Lord? Only You have the words of eternal life.” And, with one voice we say the same. In Jesus strong Name, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Monday, January 28, 2013
1/28/13
The most famous story about lying in American history is the one about George Washington chopping down a cherry tree. When his father asked him who did it, George supposedly said, “I cannot tell a lie; I did it with my little hatchet.” That was in a biography written by Parson Weems in the nineteenth century – only one problem… He made up the whole story. Incredibly, the most famous story about not lying in America was itself a lie! And truthfulness is still in short supply! Politicians spin promises, telemarketers scam the elderly, job seekers pad their resumes, repair shops inflate their bills, students steal essays from the Internet and spouses lie to each other about money and infidelity.
Have you heard that the IRS maintains what is informally called a ‘cheater’s account,’ to which people with guilty consciences can send money they know they owe? There’s a story that the IRS received one letter that read, “My conscience is bothering me because of cheating on my taxes, so I’m sending $10,000. If my conscience doesn’t clear up, I’ll send the rest of what I owe.”
Proverbs 12:22 NIV declares, “The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are truthful.”
And in our hearts, in our better moments, we are resolved to be completely truthful. But, in this generation, perhaps more than any other, compromising the truth is almost expected. Everybody seems to do it and it is considered no big deal. Wrong! Speaking of the saved in Revelation 14:5, John reveals, “No lie was found in their mouths; they are blameless.”
Pray with me… Dear Father and Lord, You are the God of all truth and we want to reflect your character from the inside out. Make us like you… truth tellers in a world of deception. In the name of Jesus, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Have you heard that the IRS maintains what is informally called a ‘cheater’s account,’ to which people with guilty consciences can send money they know they owe? There’s a story that the IRS received one letter that read, “My conscience is bothering me because of cheating on my taxes, so I’m sending $10,000. If my conscience doesn’t clear up, I’ll send the rest of what I owe.”
Proverbs 12:22 NIV declares, “The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are truthful.”
And in our hearts, in our better moments, we are resolved to be completely truthful. But, in this generation, perhaps more than any other, compromising the truth is almost expected. Everybody seems to do it and it is considered no big deal. Wrong! Speaking of the saved in Revelation 14:5, John reveals, “No lie was found in their mouths; they are blameless.”
Pray with me… Dear Father and Lord, You are the God of all truth and we want to reflect your character from the inside out. Make us like you… truth tellers in a world of deception. In the name of Jesus, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
Monday, January 21, 2013
1/21/13
Here is a practical challenge for the week ahead from I Peter 3:9, “Be a blessing [to others], because to this you were called, so that you may inherit a blessing [from God].” The prophet Micah simplifies it even more in Micah 6:8. “What does the Lord require of you…. to love kindness.”
Could language be any clearer? Here are ten kindnesses we should work
on every day, and teach our children and grandchildren. After all, if
they do not learn kindness from us, where are they going to learn it?
1. Go out of your way to speak to people. [Pr 16:24]
2. Try to remember their names – it shows that you value them.
3. Smile; it increases your ‘face value.’
4. Be friendly and helpful. If you do, people will return it. [Pr 18:24]
5. Show genuine interest. You can find something good in almost anybody, if you try. [Php 4:8]
6. Be generous with your praise and cautious with your criticism.
7. Be slow to judge. There are three sides to every story – your side, their side, and the right side.
8. Instead of ‘using’ others, serve them. [Gal 5:13]
9. Try to trust people – it builds lasting relationships.
10. Be humble.
Our Christian kindness does two things: 1] It makes people think more of our Father in Heaven. Jesus said, “Live so that [people] will…. praise your Father. [Mt 5:16] 2] Your own kindness determines the extent to which you will be blessed. “Be a blessing…. so that you may inherit a blessing.” [I Pt 3:9]
Pray with me…. Father, may we remember the law of the harvest this week. What we sow, we will reap…. especially when it comes to kindness. In the name of our gracious Lord Jesus, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
1. Go out of your way to speak to people. [Pr 16:24]
2. Try to remember their names – it shows that you value them.
3. Smile; it increases your ‘face value.’
4. Be friendly and helpful. If you do, people will return it. [Pr 18:24]
5. Show genuine interest. You can find something good in almost anybody, if you try. [Php 4:8]
6. Be generous with your praise and cautious with your criticism.
7. Be slow to judge. There are three sides to every story – your side, their side, and the right side.
8. Instead of ‘using’ others, serve them. [Gal 5:13]
9. Try to trust people – it builds lasting relationships.
10. Be humble.
Our Christian kindness does two things: 1] It makes people think more of our Father in Heaven. Jesus said, “Live so that [people] will…. praise your Father. [Mt 5:16] 2] Your own kindness determines the extent to which you will be blessed. “Be a blessing…. so that you may inherit a blessing.” [I Pt 3:9]
Pray with me…. Father, may we remember the law of the harvest this week. What we sow, we will reap…. especially when it comes to kindness. In the name of our gracious Lord Jesus, amen.
Blessings,
Pastor Ken
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